January 12, 2015

Christlike Service

I gave this talk in Ward Conference on Sunday, January 11, 2015.  I thought this would be a good place to share it with the family.  Honestly I didn't remember it was Steven's birthday until last night.  I thought it was wonderful that I included him and the blessings he brought into our family in a talk I gave on his birthday without even realizing it.

Serving God by Serving One Another

Our God is a God of service.  His work and his glory is to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of us, His children.  Our Savior lived a perfect life of service.  We are called to engage in the same work.  We are called to serve and assist one another in obtaining immortality and eternal life as well as joy in this life.



The mutual theme for 2015 is counsel on how we should serve God.  It is found in Doctrine & Covenants 4:2 it states:

“Therefore, O ye that embark in the service of God, see that ye serve him with all your heart, might, mind and strength, that ye may stand blameless before God at the last day.”



President Hinckley taught that “Of all people, we must surely realize that there can be no true worship of Him who is the Christ without giving of ourselves.”  And on another occasion he said:

“We have some of our own who cry out in pain and suffering and loneliness and fear.  Ours is a great and solemn duty to reach out and help them, to lift them, to feed them if they are hungry, to nurture their spirits if they thirst for truth and righteousness.”



In what manner are we to serve God?  With “all [our] heart, might, mind and strength.”



How do we serve God?  As King Benjamin taught, we serve God by serving one another.  He said:

“And behold, I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God.”



We are to serve God by serving one another “with all [our] heart, might, mind and strength.”  And for how long are we supposed to serve with this level of effort?  Alma teaches us in Mosiah 18 that we are:

“…to serve him until you are dead as to the natural body.”



All of you look alive still.  I think everyone in this room is breathing and capable of some type of service.  A few days after her surgery, Sister Joyce Reese sent me a message to complete one of her assignments from the hospital.  It was an assignment that she could have passed on to anyone of us.  Instead she chose to give service while she was in pain.



Whom should we serve?  When should we serve?  Where should we serve?

We should serve in the family, in the ward, in the temple, and in the community.   We should serve when we are aware of a need.  We should serve when we are prompted.  We should serve when assigned.  We should provide service wisely and where and how it is needed. 



Our acts of service may be large or small, but they can all be meaningful and consequential. 



Brothers and Sisters we must also be willing to accept service.  Sometimes it will be needed, sometimes it won’t.  By accepting it we will be blessed and allow blessings to be granted to others.



Please permit me to share some personal examples of service.  As I share I ask you to please listen with the Spirit that you might learn whom, when, and where you should serve.  I encourage, that when the prompting comes, that you write it down so you can act on it.



Many of you in this ward have been the recipients of service from Kelly Webb, sometimes when you needed it and sometimes just because he was ready to provide it.  He has fixed leaks, replaced sprinkler systems, laid sod, provided blessings, packed and unpacked trailers and vehicles for Girls Camp and Boy Scout Camp.  He puts up tables.  He takes tables down.  When in doubt, Kelly helps.  Kelly gives the Lord his best.  He helps because he is a faithful disciple of Jesus Christ and honors the priesthood he holds.  Kelly Webb is an example that each of us should follow in how we give service.



I also think of Shelley Davis.  She is always quick to provide a thank you not for service, a thank you note that is accompanied by a delicious treat.  Two years ago, after Clara was born, Sister Davis brought over an amazing meal.  I told Rochelle that it made me consider having a seventh child so we could have another one of her meals.



On my mission we were expected to provide one or two hours of service each week.  Typically we taught English, but occasionally we found other ways to serve.  We helped a member move a piano down the stairs and up the stairs from the ninth floor in one building to the ninth floor in a different building.  We made sandwiches for the homeless and beggars.  We repaired library books and cleaned up schoolyards.  Once my companion and I spent over an hour pushing car after car out of the snow in the courtyard of an apartment.  On another occasion we set down our backpacks to help a young husband and wife move bags of potatoes from vehicle to a cellar.  I think they were afraid we were going to walk away with a bag or two.  I loved the challenge of finding and doing meaningful acts of service each week.  Each of us should be actively engaged in looking for opportunities to serve.



Children are a blessing.  A large part of the blessing comes from the challenge of raising children.  Personally, I don’t mind feeding children, but it can be overwhelming when you realize they want to eat three times a day, every day.  I’m amazed at the service that occurs in our homes.  As a young boy I watched for two years as my mother cared unceasingly for my disabled baby brother.  We knew he would never speak.  We knew he probably would never be able to walk or take care of himself in any significant way.  My mother, who was not raised in a gentle and loving home, exhibited angelic love and patience.  Her best reward was when my brother would smile at her.  He was taken home to his Heavenly Father shortly before his second birthday.  I’m grateful for the service provided by my mother.  I’m also grateful for the service that my brother Steven so freely gave to our family.  His short life brought my mother fully into the gospel.  The home is the greatest laboratory for growth through loving service.



Children and youth, think of the service your parents provide for you each day.  What do you do for parents and brothers and sisters?  How can you provide meaningful service in your homes?  First, you can obey and respect your parents.  Second, you can be kind to your brothers and sisters and work hard to help them be happy.  Are you doing what Jesus wants you to do in the home?



Brothers and sisters, I am so grateful for those of you who act as the Spirit prompts you.  Twice in this last year my life has been blessed in miraculous ways by your acts of thoughtful kindness.  One day, in the midst of some personal struggle with feelings of anger, I received a text from one of you expressing gratitude for something.  Recently I expressed my desire to my Heavenly Father to be able to speak with someone regarding some personal frustrations.  That evening a good brother in our ward, who had just completed a priesthood assignment sat in my office to report on his work.  As he completed the report he asked the very questions that I had told Heavenly Father I needed to discuss.  The Lord will act through us if we are prepared, listening, and willing to act.



During a Youth Conference when I was a young man in Pensacola, Florida we planned a service project at the home of an elderly sister in our ward.  This wonderful and kind sister had a yard in need of serious work.  Over thirty youth descended on it with rakes, shovels, clippers, and garbage bags.  During our two hours there, the entire neighborhood gathered around to watch.  You see, this sister was black and she lived in a predominantly black neighborhood.  Her neighbors were shocked at the site of thirty white youth working in a run down yard in a run down neighborhood.  As the crowd grew larger, some of us became a bit worried as we looked around.  I remember standing there as this old lady moved quickly from her front porch to the fence.  She yelled at her neighbors,



“Why aren’t any of you over here helping?  All of you telling me I shouldn’t be going to this church because of the color of my skin.  They know what it means to follow Jesus.  You should be helping.”



Turning around she looked at us and said, “I love all of you so much.”  Our service has the potential to impact the lives of many people in a very positive way.



God gives each of us challenges, some of which seem unbearable without the help of others.  My father-in-law, Rauhn, was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer when my wife was a junior in high school.  During the months of treatment and uncertainty the other family members stepped up to work on the small farm.  My wife and her brother took care of the lambing during the cold winter and spring.  At one of his lowest points, Rauhn received much needed help from an inspired bishop.  A barn sat at the back of the property with a roof but no walls.  Despite protests the bishop arranged for the purchase of the material required to wall in the barn.  He organized other loving and willing ward members and neighbors to join in the project.  Unable to help, barely able to care about the important things in his life, Rauhn watched as these good men put up the walls.  Today a red barn, visible from town, stands on the property.  Inscribed on the walls inside the barn are the names of those good men.  That act of service provided the spiritual and emotional lift that Rauhn needed to bring back a sense of purpose and strength to his life.  I’m grateful he is with us today to teach and love my children.  As those men drive by that red barn they are able to remember the joy that comes from meaningful service.



Service provided at the right time and in the right way has the potential to not only change lives but to save lives.  It has the potential to bring spiritual, emotional, and physical healing.



An amazing amount of service is provided in the Whitney Ranch Ward.  I am awed at the wonderful things you do for one another, both in your families and in the ward.  We serve in the temple and we serve in our communities.  Each of us can do better.



We must avoid the human desire to withhold our help when we assume that someone’s need is a result of their own poor decisions.  In the last General Conference, Elder Jeffrey R. Holland shared the following:

“Perhaps some have created their own difficulties, but don’t the rest of us do exactly the same thing?  Isn’t that why this compassionate ruler asks, ‘Are we not all beggars?’  Don’t we all cry out for help and hope and answers to prayers?  Don’t we all beg for forgiveness for mistakes we have made and troubles we have caused?  Don’t we all implore that grace will compensate for our weaknesses, that mercy will triumph over justice at least in our case?  Little wonder that King Benjamin says we obtain a remission of our sins by pleading to God, who compassionately responds, but we retain a remission of our sins by compassionately responding to the poor who plead to us.”



Christ like service is so important for those in need and it is essential to our own salvation and eternal progression.  Our goal is to become like our Savior Jesus Christ.  His entire purpose is to serve, save, and exalt others.  That must become the focus of our existence if we want to become like him.



Please look for and act on opportunities to serve.  Listen to the promptings of the Holy Ghost.  Respond to priesthood assignments to serve.  Please pay your fast offerings, being as generous as you can be when possible.  Please go forward today with the intent to provide greater and more consistent service.

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